Things to #think about before asking somebody a question about their life:
1. Am I genuinely concerned about that person.
2.Do I want to comfort the person if he/she is feeling down / in trouble?
3. Can I comfort the person in anyway ? Am I helpful in this situation?
4. Am I just being curious to know what is happening in their life?
5. What will the other person feel if I ask these things to them?
6. How much privacy does a person need? How much privacy will I want when I am going through some issues/ when im down?
7. How to ask them about their issues without hurting their feelings, or public attention?
8. After talking to the person, what would should be my end goal? How I can make that person feel at ease and provide some hope or comfort?
PS: If you are really concerned about a person, you will not ask about their issues in public. You will personally ask them and try to console them or provide a solution. If you feel the need to ask those questions/ concerns in public, then you are definitely not interested in their wellbeing 😅
TRY TO SEE YOURSELF IN OTHER PERSONS SHOES (I know its not easy) !
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