Have you ever wondered about the unique creation, that we are! Each one of us are recognized individually, which is a blessing. We are recognized for what we are and those who seek what we have will love us for the same. It is truely a blessing, our life. We should always be thankful for it and don't complain. I have heard many people complain about themselves and about others. The one who complain about themselves is not confident enough and the one who complaints about others is jealous of them. Even when we see twins, the identical twins; they too have many factors that make them different. Say, the character or a mole which one have and the other don't. Love yourself and celebrate the uniqueness thats what we have to do to honour the creation.
There are many people who critisize you for what you are not but only a very few will appreciate you for what you are. So accept the fact that some people never stop criticizing as they are born for it and don't even think about them. Think about you, who you are, what you are and what you can. Think about your own self, all that you are and what makes you special about it.If someone says "Hear how I sing, you have got a very poor sound" instead of getting sad look at them straight to their eyes, smile and say "But what I can do that you cannot right? That is the uniqueness of gods creation!". Because I personally have experienced the criticizm of people for what you are not. What is the point of thinking or speaking of what a person is not? Instead why can't we apprecite a person for what we are and nurture them. Think how beautifully you can be you. The very beautiful and upgraded version of you. Nobody can steal your identitiy from you even if they can steal all material things from you. That's the power of identity. To be known as fat, thin, white or black is not what you are. Even though there are many racist in this world, "White" is not a blessing and "Black" is not a curse, "Thin" is not a blessing and "Fat" is not a curse. We are much more than what others see physically or what people make us see. Our strength to come up in life determines what we will be in the future. Mnay people have called me being "Bubbly", but I have never ever thought of growing thin or any reason. I have spectacles and people said that the specs affected my beauty. Did it really? I thought but no! my specs only helped me to have a good vision all these three years. Specs makes me confidence and nobody knows what I want apart from me more.
The one who can only love you for your external appearence can leave you anytime as you start getting some sadder phase of your life. The one who stays with you for what you have will leave you once you no longer have it or as you start loosing it. But the one who loves you for what you are will never leave you because they are never loosing what they wanted ever. It all depends on what you want. We will seek what we want and will criticize the one who cant match up with it. Even people criticize us when they can't be us. So our uniqueness is a real blessing and that makes us very beautiful. Never loose yourself trying to gain something that you can't be!