Let's both put in the effort, find the middle ground and meet each other half-way; and then lets walk to our destination together. Lets move forward in time ! The journey will be cherished when people want to take it together, and the destination will look more attractive when the company along the journey was great. As a couple, we have to keep in mind few things:
🥂 Motivate , don't degrade.
🥂Find the middle ground, dont expect someone to come all the way for you. You both are equal in a relationship.
🥂 50-50 might not work. But makesure there is always a 70-30, or a 40-60 or a 20-80 approach in your relationship.
🥂 Don't hold on to each other, sometimes let the other person come seek you out. Let them gently join their fingers to yours when you least expect it, thats more sweeter than you going and leaning onto them.
🥂 Be a comfortzone, but dont let everything "pass". Judge less, but state your discomfort or concerns when required. A first warning is better than the final parting.
🥂 Where there is a will there is a way. If you mean so much to each other, you will make an effort.
🥂 Correct each others wrong in private.
🥂 Address communication gaps, sit and talk. Be easy enough to open up. Make ways to cover gaps and walk ahead together.
🥂 Accept, acknowledge and let go of all negativity. There is always a scope for improvement.
🥂 Always know that you are in the same team, so no pointing fingers or blame-game.
🥂 Support each other, and do that a lot more in public. ( I didnt say defend the other person's mistakes!)
🥂 Don't measure the things you have done for each other , don't try to weigh it in a scale and try to find balance, love doesnt work that way. Each of you need to put your genuine effort thats all that matters.
🥂 Finally, don't let a third person destroy your peace or come in-between you two.
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