Reprogram your mind : Incident 5

“You are accomodating for them, but they are not as much.” Have you felt this with any group of friends / collegues? If so then know that actions don’t lie and you are absolutely right. A recent incident has made me question about my character and others character towards mine. I wanted to see a pan India movie with the a south Indian hero. But my collegues cum friends one person from North and another from west said they are not interested. I heard the girl from east say “If its that then I am not going” to the north indian guy in my presence instead of looking into my eyes as I was the one who asked them in the first place. We can let this incident slide, but there is more to this story, they suggested to watch a bollywood movie instead even when I didnt like the hero. I should be ok when they dont like a movie I suggest and I should agree when they suggest a movie I dont like. They are not ready to watch south movies, even when we as friends watch more bollywood movies or movies of their choice. The last sharukh khan movie we watched was also to their liking, when I said back then I am not coming they forced me to go saying “sometimes you have to consider your friends right? “ why didnt they consider me, when I called them for a movie? That question ran in my head. I decided not to call them again for a movie or go for a movie I do not like to watch compromising with them. Differencr of opinion , likes and dislikes in each areas from our collegues or friends shows us that each of us are unique. Its dignified when we dont force anyone for anything, PERIOD.