Living life as if I'm the heroine of my own story, with a female-centric perspective, has been a fulfilling journey. Through countless ups and downs, each experience has contributed to making me stronger and more resilient. Despite moments of deep pain and bouts of depression, there are also times when I feel uniquely special, unmatched in my existence.
The greatest privilege lies in the inherent uniqueness of every individual, despite sharing the same basic human anatomy. Before landing a job, my life was filled with activities that fueled my passions – writing, reading, dancing, exercising, creating content, and indulging in hobbies like badminton, cooking, and photography. Money or allowance was secondary to the joy derived from these pursuits, even dabbling in chocolate making and baking for added enjoyment.
Despite facing job rejections and heartbreaks, I remained steadfast in my self-worth, viewing setbacks as opportunities for personal growth rather than reasons for self-blame. I've always been my own cheerleader, embracing self-love and care as guiding principles. Each rejection or disappointment only reaffirmed my commitment to prioritizing my own well-being.
Even after securing a job, self-care remains paramount. Dedicated "self-love Saturdays" or occasional solo outings for meals or movies serve as reminders of the importance of nurturing myself. I understand my desires better than anyone else, indulging in activities that bring me joy and fulfillment.
In essence, I am my own favorite, and that's a stance I'll always uphold. With only one life to live and no certainties about an afterlife, cherishing myself becomes imperative. I embrace the role of the heroine, recognizing the wings I possess to soar beyond limitations. Life isn't meant to be admired from a distance but embraced with passion and romanticized to reveal its true preciousness. After all, "You are the heroine, which means you have some privileges. You have wings and it is to fly, you don’t belong in a museum but on a runway, you are an art not to be showcased but to be flourished. Romanticize life and see how life turns out to be your most precious thing in the world."
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