What if , what you need is not a rebound…

What if , what you need is not a rebound to bounce back and see your worth but a good old school romance where somebody really wants to be a part of you? Now take off the "what if" from the begining and read it like a sentence with an exclamation at the end. Keep the person safe and loved who is ready to run along with you and your imperfections. When a breakup happens or when love fails or when your partner is no more with you, you still carry the love, hurt, grief, anger and much more in your heart. You will miss them deeply and your affection will be double when you are not with them anymore or in knowing that you cannot be with them anymore. As much difficult as it looks , so it is there is no argument in that but unfortunately life must go on and there is no argument in that too. Passion is to be felt, it is not to be taught. When you can feel the passion again in life, go for it. When love happens again, dont close the doors with inhibitions or overthinking. Sometimes the best remedy is to let loose than to stay stiff. Our journey in this world is alone, we think we will have someone or maybe we hope but all the greatest battles of ours we win on our own, we do have people supporting us at different phases of our life, encouraging us, cheering us up, but to have or not have those people is not going to increase or decrease the strength you already have. With and without people the time taken in understanding your strength might vary, but you will only perform on your capabilities and not by anybody elses. So if you think certain things you do are not possible without certain people sure, yes they can make it easier but sooner or later you will know it is nothing that you couldnt do. Not everyone gets to be with one single person for the rest of their lives, we meet different people at different times, some stay, some leave quicker than they came, some leave with unfinished business, some leave not wanting to leave with timw doesnt permit, but until and unless you dont get to leave, you have to keep on meeting people. Even if you dont wish for it, those who are destined to find you will always do. It you think practically taking out the destiny part, the world we live in has alot of people, so we do meet people by chance, and we like them. We would be charmed, we would learn to laugh again, we will find hope again. So after a relationship has ended however abruptly or unfinished, you dont have to look for a rebound or the next thing to focus on you. You can maybe find a new hobby or polish your old hobbies or passion, drawing or painting or travel, or writing or focus on your career or anything that you want to do, to fill a painful gap instead of looking for that one rebound or person. It doesnt always have to be that way, because when you keep looking then you might not fins and the process can be tiring. It can even make you feel more hopeless than you are already feeling. The best way is to sit this one out, engage in activities you can be creative and finally oneday if it was meant to be you will feel it all again. You will feel the life flow into your body, your spirit uplifted, even with a tinge of pain in a corner of your heart. I hope you will never miss out on great romances, and love will always be a positive driving force in your life. But the point is “Never say Never to love”.